“Do not form a misconception about the role that you play in the lives of your loved ones. Do not give yourself unnecessary self-importance and be mistaken that things would come to a standstill , for everyone around you , if you were not there for them …”

Japanese Language

「あなたの愛する人の人生で果たす役割について誤解を形成しないでください。不必要な自己重要性を与えないでください。それら…」
`Anata no aisuruhito no jinsei de hatasu yakuwari ni tsuite gokai o keisei shinaide kudasai. Fuhitsuyōna jiko jūyō-sei o ataenaide kudasai. Sorera…'

Urdu language

"آپ اپنے پیاروں کی زندگی میں جو کردار ادا کرتے ہیں اس کے بارے میں غلط فہمی پیدا نہ کریں۔ خود کو غیر ضروری خود اہمیت نہ دیں اور یہ غلطی کیج  کہ اگر آپ وہاں موجود نہ ہوتے تو آپ کے آس پاس کے ہر فرد کے لئے معاملات رک جائیں گے۔ انہیں… "

Spanish language

"No se equivoque sobre el papel que desempeña en la vida de sus seres queridos. No se dé una importancia innecesaria y se equivoque de que las cosas se estancarían, para todos los que lo rodean, si no estuviera allí para ellos …"

Swamiji says…

“Man loves himself and it is essential for him to do so – as only then will he be able to care for others, love others. But the love and attachment that he develops for himself, at times, leads to the creation of an ego so huge – so humungous, that he starts believing that he is the epicenter of all that is happening around him and , if not for him , the wheels of time and the needles of the clock would stop turning for everyone he leaves behind. “Why should I not give myself importance? ” – he questions “After all haven’t I worked hard to reach where I am today ?” “Am I not providing my family with everything that they need ?” “Am I not doing all that I can for my loved ones?” He is of the firm opinion that since he is perpetually doing something or the other for them , all the time , what would happen to his family if something were to happen to him. The thought fills him with dread and worry. After all isn’t he the ‘ doer ‘? Their sole provider !”

“It is here that he needs to be aware of the harsh but – the fundamental truth , that the air of self-importance that he wears like a halo around his self – opinionated head , is but a bubble that shall burst , once he realizes that it is not he who is the ‘doer ‘ – but his Creator who is running the show. And that he is just a puppet in His hands, dancing to the rhythm of the divine music that has been composed by ‘Him’ – for each of his family member and for him. The moment he understands this , makes it the ‘mantra’ of his life and accepts this as the only reality – everything becomes crystal clear , and life becomes wondrous and simpler to live.”

“Each one of you must etch these words in your memory chip and do everything that you do with a sense of total surrender to His will. Do not live in a state of constant self – denial of His plan for you , in this lifetime , and anoint yourself with the titles that you would like to award yourself – ‘I am making things happen around me! ‘All that is happening is happening only because of ‘me’!’ ‘How will my family live if something were to happen to me?’ ‘What will happen to my parents, wife and children?’ ‘Who will take care of them?’ More than often you must have said these words to yourself and their deep , convincing resonance within you , would have made you believe in them all the more , without questioning the falsetto tone in their ring.”

” You are right to a certain extent in worrying about the welfare of your kith and kin , their future – in the event of something adverse happening to you , but then are you sure that it is ‘you’ who is taking care of them. Give it a serious thought and see if you can elicit an answer from within yourself. It is ‘He’ alone – your Creator , provider , the ‘doer-‘ who takes care of you and of all those who you love; and, in the worst probability of death snatching you away from your loved ones, ‘He’ will continue to take care of them ‘Himself’ personally, the way He has been doing ever since He willed you to be conceived in your mother’s womb.”

“The seeds of ‘I’ can branch into megalomaniac proportions if you do not keep yourself grounded and humble. You need to acquaint yourself, at the earliest, with the mindless faith that you have developed in the false insincerity of ‘I’ and ‘me’. This mindset is being utilised by you in both – your personal and professional life. You laud yourself repeatedly – “The project would not have shaped out so well if I hadn’t been a part of it! All credit goes to me for my commendable effort in making it perfect!’ It is here where you need to check yourself. All that has been achieved by you till date is a result of the plan that has been drafted for you by Him. The fact that you have been able to work hard and achieve what you have succeeded in doing so far is due to His blessings on you, and the dividends that you are reaping in this lifetime is because of your good ‘karma’ in the past lifetime.”

“‘Remember , ‘ He’ alone is the script – writer, the dialogue writer, the producer, and the director of the journey of our life and since ‘He’ has ‘created’ us , we become His responsibility and it is He alone who takes care of us in the true sense of the word – from the moment of our birth till our last breath.”

Swamiji’s message translated in Spanish

El hombre se ama a sí mismo y es esencial que lo haga, ya que sólo entonces será capaz de cuidar de los demás, amar a los demás. Pero el amor y el apego que desarrolla para sí mismo, a veces, conduce a la creación de un ego tan grande – tan humilde, que comienza a creer que él es el epicentro de todo lo que está sucediendo a su alrededor y, si no para él, las ruedas del tiempo y las agujas de la reloj dejaría de girar para todos los que deja atrás. “¿Por qué no debería darme importancia?” – cuestiona: “Después de todo, no he trabajado duro para llegar a donde estoy hoy?” “¿No estoy proporcionando a mi familia todo lo que necesitan?” “¿No estoy haciendo todo lo que puedo por mis seres queridos?” Es de la firme opinión de que ya que está constantemente haciendo algo u otro para ellos, todo el tiempo, lo que le pasaría a su familia si algo le pasara. El pensamiento lo llena de miedo y preocupación. Después de todo, ¿no es él el “hacedor”?¡Su único proveedor!”

“Es aquí donde necesita ser consciente de lo duro pero – la verdad fundamental , que el aire de auto-importancia que lleva como un halo alrededor de sí mismo – cabeza opinada , no es más que una burbuja que estallará, una vez que se da cuenta de que no es el que es el ‘doer’ – sino su Creador que dirige el espectáculo. Y que es sólo un títere en Sus manos, bailando al ritmo de la música divina que ha sido compuesta por ‘El’ – para cada uno de su familiar y para él. En el momento en que entienda esto , lo convierte en el ‘mantra’ de su vida y lo acepta como la única realidad: todo se vuelve cristalino y la vida se vuelve maravillosa y sencilla de vivir”.

“Cada uno de ustedes debe grabar estas palabras en su chip de memoria y hacer todo lo que hagan con una sensación de entrega total a Su voluntad. No vivas en un estado de constante yo – negación de Su plan para ti, en esta vida, y ununtándote con los títulos que te gustaría otorgarte a ti mismo – ‘¡Estoy haciendo que las cosas sucedan a mi alrededor! “Todo lo que está sucediendo está sucediendo sólo a causa de ‘yo’! “¿Cómo vivirá mi familia si algo me pasara?” “¿Qué pasará con mis padres, esposa e hijos?” “¿Quién se encargará de ellos?” Más que a menudo debes haber dicho estas palabras a ti mismo y su profunda resonancia, convincente dentro de ti, te habría hecho creer en ellas aún más, sin cuestionar el tono de falsete en su anillo.”

” Tienes razón hasta cierto punto en preocuparte por el bienestar de tu kith y parientes, su futuro – en caso de que algo adverso te suceda, pero entonces estás seguro de que eres ‘tú’ quien está cuidando de ellos. Piensa seriamente y mira si puedes obtener una respuesta desde dentro de ti mismo. Es ‘El’ solo – tu Creador, proveedor, el ‘doer-‘ que cuida de ti y de todos los que amas; y, en la peor probabilidad de que la muerte te arrebate a tus seres queridos, ‘El’ seguirá cuidándolos personalmente, la forma en que lo ha estado haciendo desde que os ha dado la incebida en el vientre de vuestra madre”.

“Las semillas de ‘yo’ pueden ramificarse en proporciones megalómanas si no te mantienes castigado y humilde. Necesitas familiarizarte, lo antes posible, con la fe sin sentido que has desarrollado en la falsa insinceridad de ‘yo’ y ‘yo’. Esta mentalidad está siendo utilizada por usted en su vida personal y profesional. Te elogias repetidamente – “¡El proyecto no se habría moldeado tan bien si no hubiera sido parte de él! Todo el crédito va a mí por mi esfuerzo encomiable en hacerlo Es aquí donde usted necesita para comprobar usted mismo. Todo lo que ha logrado usted hasta la fecha es el resultado del plan que ha sido redactado para usted por El. El hecho de que hayan podido trabajar duro y lograr lo que han logrado hacer hasta ahora se debe a Sus bendiciones sobre ustedes, y los dividendos que están cosechando en esta vida se debe a su buen ‘karma’ en la vida pasada”.

“‘Recuerda, ‘Sólo él’ es el guión – escritor, el escritor de diálogo, el productor, y el director del viaje de nuestra vida y como ‘El’ nos ha ‘creado’, nos convertimos en Su responsabilidad y es sólo él quien nos cuida en el verdadero sentido de la palabra – de la mamá ent de nuestro nacimiento hasta nuestro último aliento.”

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  1. We are He only. This is intrinsic truth.
    Till the time we really feel this , it is better to avoid the feeling of doership.
    Jai Gurudev

  2. Guru gobind dou khade , kake lagin paye.
    Balihari guru apki, gobind diyo bataye..

    Swamiji..
    Be with us, forever.
    Amen

  3. Guru gobind dou khade , kake lagin paye.
    Balihari guru apki, gobind diyo bataye..

    Swamiji..
    Be with us, forever.
    We love you..
    Amen

  4. Incredible guidance from Swamiji. Thank you for opening our eyes and making us aware of the true life realities. Grateful, as always.

  5. We should always stay humble & grounded and express our Gratitude towards ‘Him’ … the Creator of this Universe for everything that he has showered upon us.

    Thank you Swamiji , as always for reminding us with your pearls of wisdom.
    Gratitude
    Puneet

  6. Indeed, God alone is the Doer, and none else. We are a mere instrument in His hand. He is the Operator and we are the machine. He is the Indweller and we are the house. He is the Driver and we are the carriage. God alone is real, all else is illusory. Goal of human life is to love God. He is our inner guide.
    With Swamiji ‘s guidance we all should know the reality and move towards the right path.
    Pranam Swamiji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  7. कोई व्यक्ति जमाने के लिए बेहतर तो हो सकता है पर ‘उस ‘तत्व से ऊपर नहीं। किसी के जाने से ये जमाना कब रुका है इस लिए यह याद रखना चाहिए- कल और आएंगे नग़मों की
    खिलती कलियाँ चुनने वाले
    मुझसे बेहतर कहने वाले
    तुमसे बेहतर सुनने वाले
    कल कोई मुझको याद करे
    क्यूँ कोई मुझको याद करे
    मसरूफ़ ज़माना मेरे लिये
    क्यूँ वक़्त अपना बरबाद करे
    मैं पल दो पल का शायर हूँ .
    हमें अपनी कार्य कुशलता का अभिमान नहीं होना चाहिऐ,स्वामी जी ने हमारी आँखें खोली हैं।
    स्वामी जी के चरणों में मेरा नमन।

  8. Each word of this message is sole soothing.
    Swamiji is my script writer, the director of my journey, my doer, my creater.
    I bow to His lotus feet

  9. Om gurudevo namaha. Such wonderful words and the fact of life, which is heart touching. It has mesmerised my soul and antarattma. After cumming in ur sharan ,I have almost forgotten what is mein. I try to live for others and give them love, comfort and happiness, which gives me immense pleasure. I will n I shall always follow the path shown by you, as u know the purpose of my life. Kindly keep on showering ur blessings on us. Pranam gurudev.

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