Day: November 24, 2024

Swami ji said…

In life, we often times come across phases and moments of dejection. We feel lost and discouraged. Absolutely nothing seems to make us feel secure and confident. We are a picture of self-doubt and fear. The mind is convinced that all has been for naught – our efforts and sacrifices – all of them have meant nothing and we are no good. We are quite convinced that we are of no use. And, strangely, our silent communication with these dark thoughts – has such a strong hold and influence on us – that we begin to believe in them – wholly and completely.

Do we ever ask ourselves as to why do have such faith and belief in the power of ‘NOT’? ” I cannot do this !” ‘ I cannot do that !” That is not possible for me to do ! ” That cannot be done! ” Day in and day out, we see so many people – achieve remarkable feats ; attain goals that we could only dream of. Yet, we convince ourselves that we surely will not be able to replicate none of those ourselves. It appears as though we are drawn towards these words, with some kind of a strange, fascinating conviction. As if these words – were only further strengthening the belief that we had already developed in our inadequacies. It is almost as if we trust these words…” ऐसा क्यूँ कि हम उन शब्दों पर ज्यादा विश्वास करते हैं जो हमें कमजोर करते हैं ? लेकिन स्वयं पर अटल और अटूट विश्वास नहीं करते ?”

The difference between those who think they ‘can’t’ and those who think they ‘can’, is often times not so much to do with ability or talent – but , rather, it is how they view themselves and others spiritually.To know oneself is to know God. Most of us however, do not view God in the remotest sense – when we think of ourselves. So blinded are we by ‘maya’, that we do not sense or feel any connection to a higher form. And , since all our experiences are limited by, and, bound to the physical senses – we are of course going to always place limits on what we can do or not do.

Man’s ego always makes him believe that he is the sole doer, the ‘कर्ता-धर्ता’ – and it is only he – who brings about everything – in his life. And , while such thinking can make one arrogant; it also makes one feel alone, bound by the limitations of ‘their’ self – be it physical or mental. How then can one ever think of taking on things that seem ‘out of reach’ or appear to be ‘insurmountable’?

But, those who are aware, who believe in a power higher than their own ; who believe that they can tap into that power and can be assisted by that power – such people, of course, are different ! They understand that it is their duty to give any and all their endeavours – their best shot; and that with God’s blessings they will be able to find ways to overcome whatever obstacles they are faced with. They understand that it is not just them, but, the Hand of God that makes them capable of doing that – which otherwise seems impossible.
The self-confidence that we see in such individuals, is not just confidence in their own abilities, but , also in the belief that God is looking over them and will be there for them whenever He is needed by them – provided they put in their best to achieve their goal.

Those, thus, on the spiritual path must ask themselves – Will a few setbacks leave them feeling uninspired, unimaginative and lustreless throughout their lifetime?
” ‘स्वयं’ पर विश्वास’ करने से, अपनी क्षमताओं पर भरोसा करने से और अपना सारा ध्यान अपने लक्ष्य पर केन्द्रित करने से हम मुश्किल से मुश्किल समय से गुज़र सकते हैं और नामुमकिन को मुमकिन कर सकते हैं…”

One must never give up on oneself. What we must understand is that it is in those moments – when we push ourselves – even while surrounded by darkness and despair – feeling lost and powerless – that is when we are actually not just placing faith in ourselves, but , also placing our faith in God. In fact, it is only when we begin to do so ; start being that way – that we begin to realise that there is something other than ‘us’ that is assisting us, wanting us to succeed. It is only when we persevere beyond our own limits that we can feel the helping Hand of God – guiding us forward – towards the light of motivation , self – confidence…और विश्वास स्वयं पर …”