Swami ji’s Sandesh… “समय”

Swami ji said…

‘Time’ that we take for granted is fleeting. It passes by in an instant—unaffected by anything, unstoppable—seemingly waiting for none. But could it, quietly and silently, be playing the role of a watchful observer, as it witnesses us celebrate our joys and grieve over our sorrows? What about
our whimsical promises to become better individuals from the next day and then conveniently forgetting to adhere to our own words, are something that time has witnessed again and again – knowing very well how weak many of us are in reality ?

It seems to beam at us lovingly on seeing us wait impatiently for those auspicious, sacred, and sublime days when we welcome God into our homes—in whichever form He may be, whether as feminine or masculine divine energy—promising ourselves that we will become better than before, more awakened and more conscious.
It watches us, almost bemusedly, as during those days, in particular, we attempt to discipline ourselves and enter into a silent pact with the Divine—that we will steel ourselves to follow a routine, make an effort to exercise self-restraint, and perform the rituals required to invoke the Divine One’s blessings and Grace upon us. Keeping the ordained instructions in mind, we become extremely conscious of our ‘karma’. “हमारी सोच, हमारे विचार, हमारे बोलने का तरीका, दूसरों के साथ हम कैसा व्यवहार करते हैं, सात्विक भोजन ग्रहण करते हैं…”We succeed in bringing about quite a many changes in ourselves during such auspicious days.

So keen are we to please and placate the Divine—perhaps fearing that we may have incurred His displeasure in some way—that we worship Him with exemplary devotion. We may even dedicate a few extra hours while serving God with a sense of duty, expressing gratitude for all that He does and has done so far for us. All this unfolds with time watching us metamorphose into ‘different’ individuals during the entire duration of those auspicious days. But, then, why is it that many among us are unable to maintain this fervour, enthusiasm, and devotion once the celebratory spirit wanes off?

Time constantly sees how we manage ourselves as we rise and fall; the grace with which we handle our inner turmoil and meet the demands of the external world. It observes the way we live our lives—whether we treat life as a battle, living in constant worry and tension, or whether we live in a state of gratitude, thankful for every little blessing that He endows upon us.

The spiritual seeker must remember that there are no ‘holidays’ in worship and prayer. We cannot assume that we can be spiritual on six days of the week, but not on the seventh. We must strive to carry God in our thoughts at all times. Whether we are enjoying life, struggling with it, feeling bored, or feeling excited—the illusory nature of this world must not distract us from God. There is no ‘special time’ for God. He can and must be remembered everywhere. Consciously or subconsciously, we must strive to take His name in every breath and bow our heads to Him. That is the attitude a spiritual seeker must cultivate. This is what will truly help one realise the fickleness of this world and the permanence of God. It is only through constant remembrance and prayer that we come to understand that God does not need to be invited into our homes; rather, He is already everywhere—it is we who must learn to see Him.

Of course, it is good to celebrate festivals and observe long-standing rituals, but, it is incorrect to reserve only those days for God. Do we care for our children only on certain days of the month? Do we remember our parents only a few times in the year? Do we love them more on Diwali and less on other days? Then why should it be so with God?

Such behaviour reveals that we may have reduced our relationship with God to a transactional one. But God is not a vain deity whose ego needs to be appeased with offerings and prayers. God needs nothing from us. He is with us when no one else is. He is our strength in times of fear and our hope in moments of despair. We need Him; He does not need us. He pays attention to us even when we are distracted from Him.

Our only hope for liberation from the cycle of birth and rebirth is to know and understand Him. And this cannot be achieved by treating Him like a distant acquaintance – but as The One who has made us a part of Himself and is present within us.